The #FreeTheNipple movement has made it more acceptable for women to be topless in front of others. And for the most part, that's not a problem. But throwitaway25705's boyfriend's female roommate is freeing the nipple all over their apartment, and it's making her jealous. Should she be?
"She has done it before but has done it more since he got with me," she writes. "Finally, I asked him why he is still with me if he could obviously have her. He tried to console me by having sex with me, but ignored my breasts. He earlier claimed that he didn't want to tell her what to do in her own home and that he doesn't want her."
She also mentioned that she feels insecure because this woman has bigger breasts than her—which the roommate brought up when she tried to confront her about being topless, saying she can't help it that she's more well-endowed.
Is it fair of her to ask her boyfriend or his roommate to do anything about this? Or would that be infringing on her right to dress (or not dress) how she wants? Here's what Reddit has to say:
"I'm very casual about nudity but I realize that a lot of people aren't. Generally, I modify my behavior to avoid discomforting others. This girl is either a crazy militant about the whole 'free the nipple' thing, or she's got other ambitions." —backseat_adventurer
"It sounds like your boyfriend is not a boob man, or at least not a big boob man. Lots of guys like smaller breasts. You should tell him to give your breasts more attention in bed—he might have been avoiding them so as to not set you off. His roommate is terrible and if he's as great as he seems, he will find a new place to live ASAP and NEVER let her answer the door/be alone with you." —bravepig