There's nothing wrong with a good hair tug. Not only does a tug of our tresses stimulate nerve endings, it's primal and passionate and ever-so-slightly aggressive, which is always hot.
We're ovens, not microwaves. Cliche? Yes. But this well-worn analogy bears repeating until the men of the world realize that a quick, positive dipstick test doesn't mean we're ready to go—it more likely means we still need another 10 minutes of foreplay to become even more aroused and ready to orgasm.
And while we're on that topic, wait to orgasm until we've had ours. Please. Too many women have heard the well-intentioned, "I'll take care of you after," only to find themselves sexually dissatisfied as their partners snooze-post sex beside them.
Take us by surprise. The best part about a quickie isn't the race to the finish line—it's feeling like you have to have us right now. So by all means, jump us before we've had the chance to set down our shopping bags or the second we step out of the shower. The more aroused we can tell you are, the faster we'll get there ourselves.
Don't take your dirty talk cues from porn. Surprise! We actually don't want to be asked, "Who's your daddy?" But women do want to hear how turned on you are, how much you love our bodies, and how good you want to make us feel. In these cases, by all means, go on and on and on.
Touch our clitoris during sex. Most women don't orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone, so if your hand can reach our hot spot, use it. Start with soft stokes and move to harder and quicker flicks toward the end of the action.
Kiss us. A lot. Too many men get into a groove and forget our lips entirely—which is a bad move, because it takes much of the intimacy of sex right back out. That doesn't mean we're dying for mushy, however. Your kisses should match the mood, moving from sweet and soft to deep and tongue-filled if we're going at it like gangbusters.
What did we miss? What do you wish men would do more of or more often in bed? What do you wish they'd stop doing?
Also, here's why guys say they're terrible at breakups:
