A woman on TikTok, Mercy Joseph, has advised married ladies not to depend only on their husbands.
According to her, men are not reliable and can change at any time. She advised women not to be surprised, but to plan ahead and prepare themselves.
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Mercy advised women to learn a skill, get a job, or start a business and save up for the future as a woman. According to her, many women have been stranded because they failed to build themselves and relied on their husbands for survival and self-esteem.
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Watch the video below:
@mercyjoseph19 Three major things to do before your husband changes in marriage so that u won’t be surprised #marriage #teamcruise🔥 #mercyjoseph19 ♬ original sound – Mercy Joseph
See reactions below:
@katecharis3: “to prepare for marriage come be like to prepare for war.”
@beautyeseosa: “that’s why am using my money to buy different types of gold necklace should incase anything happens I can sell them and move on with my life.”
@blessing926: “Guard your mind with all diligence. out of it are the issues of life/marriage. putting hope on a man is the hallmark for disappointment.”
@leeleeorganicskincare: “This is y so many girls are scared to get married.”
@ejis202: “My marriage is 10 years now am still enjoying it but I am prepared oo in case.”
@la_bellec: “It’s always good to prepare for the worst but also don’t be in marriage preparing for the worst rather pray for your marriage to last.”
@123cherryblossom: “yesssss girl…. save your monies and get your own house.”
@nafisamamanumaima: “sister is true men can change at anytime no matter how is set he loves you.”
@dominiquebrown84: “Yes, you are absolutely right.”
@naturalkristy40: “Thank God, that mindset was embedded in me by my beloved mother. A woman must always set her own savings on the side because marriage is not depending.”
@victory4561: “a word is enough for the wise.”
